Alcoholism A Disease C
There are many debates as to whether
Alcoholism is in fact a legitimate disease
and while I often hear people argue that it is not and
leverage their point by
comparing it to the conventional idea of
what a disease is, I feel the problem is in the word disease more
than the word
“Alcoholism”. While I’m not going to get into
the dictionary definitions of either, I believe that my first hand
experience is definition for
myself.
My father was what is called a functional alcoholic. My brother and I
never noticed him acting drunk or stumbling or getting moody, he was just dad.
Folding-laundry-while-watching-his-football-with-his-glass-of-wine-Dad, so his disease was far less
noticeable then when I met a boyfriend by the name of Max. Max was a fall-down-drunk,
the kind of sloppy drunk that could be happy one minute and in a rage the
next. Both men would not stop drinking and both men completely believed they could if they wanted to.
While my father never suffered humiliation at the hands of himself, he never had a
rock bottom to get to before he died at the age of 56 from cancer. Max on the
other hand has humiliated himself countless times. All of us have family a family history involving the
consistent use of alcohol and all of us with a tendency towards extreme introversion.
As I always say, alcohol is not the problem, it’s use is the symptom of
whatever is going on in the deep, dark corners of your mind that even you may not consciously be fully aware of
at any given moment. For some people, alcohol is used in the same way as
people that self-medicate with food. The disease isn’t the method of which you
choose to escape from it, the disease may in fact be an inability to recognize or admit deeper issues. This causes
a body to be without ease or in a state of dis-ease. The problem is not in the
word, "Alcoholism".
Alcoholism A
Disease
Raging Alcoholic
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